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		<title>The Days of Black and White</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 28 Jul 2010 07:16:01 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Gary</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Red Skelton who ened each of his TV programs with &#8220;Good night and God bless..&#8221; Go all the way to the bottom past the pictures. I think you&#8217;ll enjoy it. Whoever wrote this must have been my next door neighbor because it totally described my childhood to a &#8216;T.&#8217; Hope you enjoy it. Black and [...]]]></description>
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<h3>Red Skelton who ened each of his TV programs with &#8220;Good  night and God bless..&#8221;</h3>
<h3>Go all  the way to the bottom past the pictures. I think you&#8217;ll enjoy it. Whoever wrote  this must have been my next door neighbor because it totally described my  childhood to a &#8216;T.&#8217; Hope you enjoy it.</h3>
<h2 style="text-align: center;"><span style="text-decoration: underline;">Black  and White TV</span></h2>
<p style="text-align: center;"><img class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-4324" title="a2" src="http://www.fatherlyadviceandrants.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/a2.bmp" alt="" width="350" height="281" /></p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><img class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-4325" title="a3" src="http://www.fatherlyadviceandrants.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/a3.bmp" alt="" width="350" height="279" /></p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><img class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-4326" title="a4" src="http://www.fatherlyadviceandrants.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/a4.bmp" alt="" width="338" height="425" /></p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><img class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-4327" title="a5" src="http://www.fatherlyadviceandrants.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/a5.bmp" alt="" width="350" height="278" /></p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><img class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-4328" title="a6" src="http://www.fatherlyadviceandrants.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/a6.bmp" alt="" width="339" height="425" /></p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><img class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-4329" title="a7" src="http://www.fatherlyadviceandrants.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/a7.bmp" alt="" width="338" height="425" /></p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><img class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-4330" title="a8" src="http://www.fatherlyadviceandrants.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/a8.bmp" alt="" width="342" height="425" /></p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><img class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-4331" title="a9" src="http://www.fatherlyadviceandrants.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/a9.bmp" alt="" width="338" height="425" /></p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><img class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-4332" title="a10" src="http://www.fatherlyadviceandrants.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/a10.bmp" alt="" width="340" height="425" /></p>
<h3>(Under age 40? You probably won&#8217;t understand.)</h3>
<h3><img class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-4333" title="tv" src="http://www.fatherlyadviceandrants.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/tv.bmp" alt="" width="94" height="80" /></h3>
<h3>You  could hardly see the TV program for all the snow,</h3>
<h3>Spread the rabbit ears as far as  they go.</h3>
<h3>Pull a chair up to the TV set,</h3>
<h3><strong>&#8216;Good Night,  David &#8211; </strong><strong>Good  Night, Chet.&#8217;</strong></h3>
<h3><strong> </strong></h3>
<h3>My  Mom used to cut chicken, chop eggs and spread mayo on the same cutting board  with the same knife and no bleach, but we didn&#8217;t seem to get food  poisoning.</h3>
<h3>My  Mom used to defrost hamburger on the counter and?I used to eat it raw sometimes,  too. Our school sandwiches were wrapped in wax paper in a brown paper bag, not  in ice pack coolers, but I can&#8217;t remember getting e.coli.</h3>
<h3>Almost  all of us would have rather gone swimming in the lake instead of a pristine pool  (talk about boring), no beach closures then.</h3>
<h3>The term cell phone would  have conjured up a phone in a jail cell, and a pager was the school PA  system.</h3>
<h3>We  all took gym, not PE&#8230;and risked permanent injury with a pair of high top Ked&#8217;s  (only worn in gym) instead of having cross-training athletic shoes with air  cushion soles and built in light reflectors. I can&#8217;t recall any injuries but  they must have happened because they tell us how much safer we are  now.</h3>
<p style="text-align: center;"><img class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-4334" title="gym" src="http://www.fatherlyadviceandrants.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/gym.bmp" alt="" width="120" height="120" /></p>
<h3>Flunking  gym was not an option&#8230; even for stupid kids! I guess PE must be much harder  than gym.</h3>
<h3>Speaking of school, we all said prayers and sang the national  anthem, and staying in detention after school caught all sorts of negative  attention.</h3>
<h3>If we  got into trouble, it was time for a HACK on the butt from either a principal or  our teacher.  We weren&#8217;t cocky and smart-ass [excuse the expression] to our  teachers . . . because of this.  There wasn&#8217;t any law suits for abuse.</h3>
<h3>We  must have had horribly damaged psyches. What an archaic health system we had  then. Remember school nurses?</h3>
<p style="text-align: center;"><img class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-4335" title="nurse" src="http://www.fatherlyadviceandrants.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/nurse.bmp" alt="" width="70" height="100" /></p>
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<h3>Ours wore a hat and everything.</h3>
<h3>I  thought that I was supposed to accomplish something before I was allowed to be  proud of myself.</h3>
<h3>I just can&#8217;t recall how bored we were without  computers, Play Station, Nintendo, X-box or 270 digital TV cable  stations.</h3>
<p><strong>Oh  yeah&#8230; and where was the Benadryl and sterilization kit when I got that bee  sting? I could have been killed!</strong></p>
<p><strong>We played &#8216;king of the hill&#8217; on piles  of gravel left on vacant construction sites, and when we got hurt, Mom pulled  out the 48-cent bottle of Mercurochrome (kids liked it better because it didn&#8217;t  sting like iodine did) and then we got our butt spanked.</strong><br />
<img id="MA16.1279071337" src="cid:X.MA16.1279071337@aol.com" alt="" width="1" height="1" /><br />
<strong>Now  it&#8217;s a trip to the emergency room, followed by a 10-day dose of a $49 bottle of  antibiotics, and then Mom calls the attorney to sue the contractor for leaving a  horribly vicious pile of gravel where it was such a threat.</strong></p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><strong>We  didn&#8217;t act up at the neighbor&#8217;s house either, because if we did we got our butt  spanked there and then we got our butt spanked again when we got  home.</strong><br />
<img class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-4336" title="spank" src="http://www.fatherlyadviceandrants.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/spank.bmp" alt="" width="230" height="281" /><br />
<strong>I  recall Donny Reynolds from next door coming over and doing his tricks on the  front stoop, just before he fell off.</strong></p>
<h3><strong> </strong>Little  did his Mom know that she could have owned our house.</h3>
<h3>Instead, she  picked him up and swatted him for being such a goof. It was a neighborhood run a muck.</h3>
<p style="text-align: center;"><img class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-4337" title="spank2" src="http://www.fatherlyadviceandrants.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/spank2.bmp" alt="" width="336" height="449" /></p>
<p><strong>To top  it off, not a single person I knew had ever been told that they were from a  dysfunctional family.</strong></p>
<h3><strong> </strong>How  could we possibly have known that?</h3>
<h3>We needed to get into group therapy  and anger management classes.</h3>
<h3>We were obviously so duped by so many  societal ills, that we didn&#8217;t even notice that the entire country wasn&#8217;t taking  Prozac!</h3>
<h3>How did we ever survive?</h3>
<h3>LOVE TO  ALL OF US WHO SHARED THIS ERA. AND TO ALL WHO DIDN&#8217;T, SORRY FOR WHAT YOU  MISSED.</h3>
<p><strong>I WOULDN&#8217;T TRADE IT FOR ANYTHING!<br />
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		<title>Memorable Movie Quotes</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 23 Jul 2010 07:41:22 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Gary</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[You know a film hit the mark when hearing just one line immediately brings the movie to mind.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<h3>You know a film hit the mark when hearing just one line immediately brings the movie to mind.</h3>
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		<title>Darlene Love &#8211; The Blossoms</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 19 Jul 2010 07:12:21 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Gary</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Their career began in 1954 in Los Angeles, California, while still in high school. Originally, the group was a sextet of young girls singing for fun. Calling themselves The Dreamers, the group originally sang spirituals, since two of the members had parents who were against their daughters singing the secular rhythm and blues music popular [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<h3>Their career began in 1954 in Los  Angeles, California, while still in high school.  Originally, the group was a sextet of young girls singing for fun.  Calling themselves The Dreamers, the group originally sang spirituals,  since two of the members had parents who were against their daughters  singing the secular rhythm and blues music popular on the radio during  the early 1950s.</h3>
<h3>Fanita Barrett, Gloria Jones, Jewel Cobbs, Pat Howard and twin  sisters Annette and Nanette Williams all came from musical backgrounds.  The twins had taken vocal and dancing lessons as youngsters. Fanita&#8217;s  brother Ronald was already a success with his vocal group, The  Meadowlarks. The Dreamers were introduced to local musicians through  Dexter Tisby, then successful with his own group, The Penguins, who had  hit the big time with Earth Angel.</h3>
<h3>The Dreamers joined Richard Berry in the studio after much rehearsal.  During 1955 and 1956, the unit made several recordings for Flair and  RPM Records. Among them was a version of Harry Warren and Mac Gordon&#8217;s  &#8220;At Last&#8221; and several of Richard Berry&#8217;s compositions, &#8220;Together&#8221;, &#8220;Wait  For Me&#8221;, and &#8220;Daddy, Daddy&#8221;. The Dreamers gained attention as versatile  singers and began getting studio work singing backup for other artists —  as well as recording a few singles of their own — as The Dreamers and  The Rollettes, although only Fanita, Gloria and Annette were involved in  The Rollettes projects.</h3>
<h3>The Dreamers then signed with Capitol Records. One of the executives, noticing their  different skin tones, said they looked like a bouquet; which is how they  became The Blossoms. Even though signing to Capitol was considered a  step up, the group&#8217;s stay at Capitol was short, yielding only three  singles, none of which made the charts. The Blossoms also underwent  significant changes at this time. By 1958, Annette was married,  pregnant, and planning a leave of absence from the group.</h3>
<h3>Darlene Wright (later known as Darlene  Love) replaced Annette, and she was also selected to be the lead,  which the ensemble-based Blossoms had not previously had. The addition  of Wright would change the style of the group, but despite Darlene&#8217;s  unique presence as lead on songs like &#8220;No Other Love&#8221; for Capitol in  1958, &#8220;Sugarbeat&#8221; for RCA (as The Playgirls) in 1960 and &#8220;Write Me A  Letter&#8221; for Challenge in 1961, chart success was still elusive.</h3>
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<h3>During the summer of 1962, The Blossoms finally emerged successful on  the charts, but under an alias. Then-unknown producer Phil  Spector used them on a song he had acquired from singer-songwriter Gene  Pitney. Spector was having success on the East Coast with a quintet  of young Brooklyn girls named The  Crystals, who already had two hits with Spector.</h3>
<h3>Problems between The Crystals and Spector prompted him to record this  new song without them. Instead he used The Blossoms, who received a  meager session fee. The song, <em>&#8220;He&#8217;s a Rebel,&#8221;</em> turned out to be a  monster hit, firmly establishing Spector as a force to be reckoned with  in the music industry. The single with The Blossoms&#8217; voices was billed  as The Crystals, much to the dismay of the real Crystals. Over the next  three years, The Blossoms, with Darlene as lead, would be the favored  singers on all of Spector&#8217;s sessions recorded in California. They were  The Crystals once again on <em>&#8220;He&#8217;s Sure the Boy I Love.&#8221;</em> Darlene  and Fanita sang with Bobby Sheen as Bob B. Soxx &amp; the Blue  Jeans. This combo achieved hit singles for Spector, including a  version of the Disney classic &#8220;Zip-a-Dee-Doo-Dah.&#8221;</h3>
<h3>The Blossoms more than likely recorded all the backgrounds on  numerous sessions by The Crystals and The  Ronettes as well as on Darlene&#8217;s solo efforts under the new stage  name Spector had given her, Darlene Love. The surname was in honor of  Dorothy Love-Coates, a gospel singer he was impressed with; however,  this association would prevent the group from establishing themselves as  primary artists. At a crucial time in the industry, when new sounds  were striking the listening public at full speed, The Blossoms seemed to  be floundering as recording artists.</h3>
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<h3>In 1964, the trio, now Darlene, Fanita, and newcomer Jean King, were a  featured part of a relatively successful weekly rock&#8217;n'roll television  program called <em>Shindig!</em>. The Blossoms used their vocal  versatility to their advantage, singing in various styles behind a  variety of artists, including Patty  Duke, Shelley Fabares and Marvin  Gaye. They were the backup group for Fabares on her recording of  &#8220;Johnny Angel&#8221;; Fabares stated in an interview quoted in <em>The  Billboard Book of #1 Hits</em> that her strongest memory of that  recording session was the &#8220;beautiful voices of the backup singers&#8221;.</h3>
<h3>The  Blossoms appeared in 1964&#8242;s &#8220;The T.A.M.I. Show&#8221;, providing backup vocals  and dancing for all of Marvin Gaye&#8217;s songs; their name appeared in the  opening credits, but they were not introduced &#8211; they are later seen at  stage left encouraging an exhausted James Brown to take the stage one  last time after his climactic performance. The Blossoms also provided  backing vocals to Doris Day&#8217;s &#8220;Move Over, Darling&#8221; from the film of  the same name. They resumed recording under their own name later in the  1960s for labels such as Reprise, Ode and MGM.  They recorded their only album, <em>Shockwave</em>, in 1972 on Lion.</h3>
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